Terrence Howard on His Mother’s Battle With Colon Cancer
Advocacy The highly acclaimed actor and star of “Empire” opens up about his mother’s six-year battle with colon cancer, which took her life at age 56.
Mediaplanet: How have you been affected by colon cancer?
Terrence Howard: I became a motherless child because of colon cancer and the treatment for it. I have become bitter and angry at times, because I can't call my mommy or the one person that was always there for me no matter where life found me. To lose your mother at such a young age—who just so happened to be your biggest fan and your very best friend—feels like being abandoned in the middle of a war-torn world where everything and everyone is a threat. It's the worst pain I've ever imagined.
MP: What did you know about colon cancer prior to your mother being diagnosed?
TH: I heard about it like everyone else heard about it: It was a name for a condition that I would never have to know. At best, that's what I thought. I was in for a rude awakening.
MP: Upon learning about your mother's condition, what initial thoughts ran through your mind and in what way did you support her?
TH: My Initial thoughts? “This is crazy. This isn't happening. We can't believe what the doctors are saying. Her health care provider doesn't cover that kind of treatment? I'll cover it.”
And I spent more than $1 million on doctors and treatments outside of her network coverage. Then I took on all of her financial responsibilities, including paying for her two young children to go to school and university, and ultimately paying for my mother's funeral.
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